What’s your biggest sexual fantasy? Are you interested in trying BDSM? Would you like to live a nurse-patient fantasy? Many men are interested in such sexual experiences. How about women? What do they fantasize about?
You may be surprised to find out that women tend to have some pretty kinky and wild desires. Many surveys have been carried out and they reveal that women tend to be pretty imaginative in their fantasies. Here are a few of the top ones.
Fantasies Of Dominance
It’s quite interesting to point out that fantasies of sexual dominance are particularly common among independent and professionally-successful women. While such ladies are used to leading large teams at work and being the top authority, they’d like their partner to take complete charge in the bedroom.
Submission comes in many forms and varieties. For some ladies, the idea of getting their hands tied with a scarf may be quite arousing. Others would want to opt for something a bit more extreme every now and then, including a bit of spanking and hair pulling.
Needless to say, fantasies of dominance should be brought to reality in a consensual way. Partners need to have a conversation about what they’re ok with and what their boundaries are. To make the experience exciting for both parties involved, these boundaries should never be crossed.
The More, The Merrier
Many men are surprised to find out that threesomes appeal to their partners. Women aren’t necessarily strictly monogamous creatures. Many fantasize about bringing another man or another woman into the relationship.
Group sex ranks among the top sexual fantasies for women questioned by different magazines and condom brands. The idea of having a couple of potential partners pleasing one person is the one that turns women on.
The configuration will vary from one woman to another. Some want to have a threesome with another woman and a partner. Some want to bring a second man in the equation. Some fantasize about sex with numerous men. There isn’t a strict rule or a single formula when it comes to sex with more than two participants.
Talk to her about this fantasy and whether she’d like to live it. The first thing to do can be using sex toys to simulate another partner. If she feels comfortable with the experience, you can move towards bringing another person in the bedroom. To make it fun, you should never rush things. In fact, letting her be in charge of the process is going to produce the best results.
Sex With A Stranger
Who says that men are the only ones who enjoy a one-night stand? The truth of the matter is that women are highly interested in having sex with a stranger just once.
The fact that the two partners don’t know each other at all is the one that contributes to the experience feeling naughty, even somewhat forbidden.
This is a sexual fantasy that has no limits. Many couples that have been married for years tend to act on this one. They may go to the club separately and enact a meeting there. They may dress different from what they usually wear. Such experiments are great for keeping the sex life fresh,
The sex with a stranger fantasy is even hotter when it gets enacted in a public space (the bathroom of the club, for example) rather than the comfort of the couple’s bedroom.
This fantasy is the opposite of voyeurism (which many women seem to enjoy, as well). The whole idea here is being watched while having sex with a partner.
The fantasy of being watched is exciting in several ways. For a start, there’s the adrenaline rush that stems from potentially getting caught. In addition, having sex in a public place is seen as a big taboo. Losing oneself completely in the act of sex while others are watching (disapprovingly) can have a highly stimulating effect.
Some women may even be willing to experiment with homemade porn because of this specific fantasy. One issue that may stand in the way is body consciousness. While you may feel very eager to shoot a clip the next time you’re having sex, you should never rush it. Start with a few nude pics. Ask her how she feels about those. If the photo session isn’t making her embarrassed, chances are that she’ll be willing to take it to the next level.
The number of women who haven’t fantasized about sex with another woman is very small. When we come to think about it, the number of men who haven’t fantasized about that is probably even smaller.
Women tend to be much more curious about same-sex experiences than men. Chances are that every lady has kissed at least one girlfriend in college or gone even farther than that.
Such fantasies don’t mean that a woman is gay. The fantasy is bringing a repressed thought to the surface. After all, there are theories that most people are bisexual to a certain extent. Sex with a woman can often be much more sensual than sex with a guy. This is why ladies would like to experience it at least once.
Enacting a Fantasy Scenario
The final popular fantasy among women involves enacting a fantasy scenario. It may be a hospital scene, a teacher/student dynamic or even a naughty re-enactment of a favorite fairytale.
The human imagination is endless, especially when it comes to bringing naughty subconscious thoughts to the surface. There’s something arousing about pretending to be someone else, about participating in a scene. Such role play helps many women lose their inhibitions and do things that they’ll never try in the bedroom otherwise.
For some people, fantasy scenarios involve elaborate costumes, settings and sex toys. For others, acting as somebody else will be sufficient. Once again, you’ll simply need to talk to her and learn a bit more about the fantasy. Chances are that she has a pretty detailed idea about what she wants to do.
These are just some of the top female sexual fantasies but the minds of ladies can get even dirtier than that. If you want to know what she’s fantasizing about, you’ll simply need to ask. Who knows, gathering the courage to have the conversation could potentially make your sex life a whole lot hotter.