The things that women and men enjoy in sex are often not the same. Unless you’re very open and honest with your partner and the two of you talk about sex, chances are that you’re oblivious to the things that drive her wild.
As far as sex positions are concerned, there tend to be significant discrepancies between what men and women like.
Do you know which sex positions women hate the most? Take a look at the following list. Chances are that at least a few of the entries will surprise you.
The Absolute, Absolute Worst!
Let’s take a look at the most disappointing position in the history of mankind – 69. Truth of the matter is that many men don’t like it, just like their significant others seem to be displeased by the sex position that tries to do too much.
The biggest problem with 69 is that it happens to be incredibly distracting. You give pleasure while simultaneously receiving it. Thus, it’s impossible to focus on either one or the other.
If you want to make things better, take turns as far as oral sex is concerned. When you make your partner incredibly happy, chances are that she’s going to reciprocate for you. Taking turns will demand more time but chances are that both of you will be much happier with the outcome.
Getting Things Going While Standing Up
In movies, having sex while both of you are standing up seems quite hot and exciting. In real life, things aren’t as easy to do.
This is especially true for the woman who has to do a fine balancing act while her partner is attempting to get things going.
Trying to have standing up sex in the shower will be even trickier. The slippery surface increases the risk of somebody falling down and both of you ending up in the emergency room.
One of the ways to make things better and easier is for the woman to lean against a wall for the purpose of having some support.
Standing up sex is typically not a lot of fun and things can become quite challenging when there’s a significant height difference between the two partners. Do yourself a favor and avoid such positions unless both of you are incredibly athletic.
Bend It Like Beckham!
Here’s a position that men and women generally disagree about.
We’re talking about a variation of the missionary in which the woman has to bring her legs to her head.
This position allows for very deep penetration, which is why most guys tend to love it. The problem is that a larger penis will hit the woman’s cervix. In essence, this can be quite painful and a woman may feel like she’s having a gynecological procedure done on her instead of just having sex.
The position will usually work for guys who have smaller penises and women who enjoy deep penetration. You can definitely try it with your partner at least once to see how both of you will feel about it. If she brings her legs down while you’re going at it, however, chances are that she doesn’t enjoy it.
And the Last Prize Goes to…
A position called the butter churner. There’s nothing sexy about it and if you take a look at a picture or a diagram of the sex position, you will know why.
When doing the butter churner, a woman will have to be on the ground with her legs over her head. At the same time, her partner will have to squat over her. If you watch adult movies, you’ve probably seen the position done. Even there, it looks anything but sexy!
Finally, remember that as far as sex is concerned, preferences aren’t universal. Your girlfriend or sex partner may actually love some of the entries in this list. Don’t be afraid to ask and to try different things. Chances are that both of you will be happy about sexual experimentation.